How Long Should I Stay in a Sober Living Home?

Research Informs Us, Experience Guides Us

One of the most common questions we hear at Solstice Recovery, a sober living home serving men in the Thousand Oaks area of Los Angeles, is:

“How long should I stay in sober living?”

We understand the importance of providing guidance rooted in research and tailored to individual needs. Recovery from addiction is not a race—it’s a long-term lifestyle change. This is a deeply personal journey that sets the foundation for a happy, healthy life. Determining the appropriate length of stay in a sober living home is a crucial decision that can significantly impact long-term sobriety. 

Let’s dive into the evidence, the factors that influence your timeline, and why Solstice Recovery might be the right place to spend this transformative season of your life.

What the Research Suggests

Studies consistently highlight the benefits of extended stays in sober living environments:

  • Minimum of 90 Days is the Gold Standard

  • Optimal Outcomes at 6 Months

    • A study published in the Journal of Psychoactive Drugs found that individuals who stayed in sober living for six months or more had significantly lower substance use, fewer arrests, and improved employment outcomes

  • Average Stays Exceeding 100 Days

    • Most residents begin to see noticeable changes in clarity, emotional stability, and structure after about 90–120 days. However, full reintegration into daily life, especially in high-risk environments like Los Angeles, often benefits from extended stays.

Factors Influencing Length of Stay

While research provides general guidelines, individual circumstances play a significant role in determining the appropriate duration:

  • Personal Progress

    • Recovery is not linear. Some individuals may feel ready to transition after a few months, while others may benefit from a longer stay to reinforce coping strategies and stability.

  • Support Systems

    • The presence or absence of a strong support network outside the sober living environment can influence the decision to stay longer.

  • Employment and Financial Stability

    • Achieving financial independence and stable employment can be a milestone indicating readiness to transition.

  • Mental and Physical Health

    • Ongoing health issues may necessitate a longer stay to ensure comprehensive care and support.

Benefits of Extended Stay

Choosing to stay longer in a sober living home can offer several advantages:

  • Reinforced Habits

    • Extended time allows for the solidification of healthy routines and coping mechanisms.

  • Community Integration

    • Longer stays foster deeper connections with peers, providing a robust support system.

  • Reduced Relapse Risk

    • Gradual transition reduces the likelihood of relapse by ensuring individuals are well-prepared to handle real-world challenges.

Solstice Recovery’s Unique Approach

At Solstice Recovery, we prioritize individualized care:

  • Flexible Programs

    • We offer programs that adapt to your unique recovery journey, without imposing arbitrary time limits.

  • Continuous Assessment

    • Regular evaluations ensure that the duration of stay aligns with your progress and goals.

  • Holistic Support

    • Our comprehensive services address not just sobriety but also mental health, employment, and life skills.

Get the Help you Deserve

Deciding how long to stay at sober living isn’t easy—but you don’t have to figure it out alone.

At Solstice Recovery, we meet you where you are. Whether you’re new to sobriety or seeking continued structure after treatment, we’ll help you build a personalized plan that puts your long-term success first.

 Contact us today to schedule a free consultation or tour our home.



About the author

Eric Bornstein

Eric is the co-founder of Solstice Recovery and an active member of the Los Angeles sober community. Since getting sober on September 6, 2015, Eric has dedicated his life to helping others build strong, sustainable foundations for long-term recovery. With four years of experience as a sober coach, he actively sponsors men in AA, facilitates groups at treatment centers, and volunteers his time to support those in early sobriety.

Along the way, Eric has earned a bachelor’s degree, rebuilt his family relationships, and traveled the world—all testaments to the transformative power of recovery. Through Solstice Recovery, Eric channels his passion and experience into creating a safe, substance-free home where young men can learn to live independent, fulfilling sober lives.

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